OK, I just watched the movie and I do agree, it was really well done.

Now, to clear this up first, I am SO not against lesbianism. I've been with women myself and enjoyed it immensely. I, am with a man, and have been for 3 1/2 years. I am attracted to women as well. I also can't honestly say which gender I prefer either.

OK, so, in this movie, it does put the point across that Rachel likes men. She considers her husband her best friend AND lover. Yes, she becomes curious about Lucy because she feels an instant attraction to her and there is nothing wrong with that.

The thing that bothers me about this movie is that it condones infidelity, lying to your partner, and in the end divorce. Bad choices all around. It basically condones what people of today's society do over and over again ; to not take marriage as serious as it truly is meant to be and this IRKS me. She could have not pursued this woman and stuck to her vows, and probably would have eventually moved on and not felt like she was "missing out". Or, she could have been HONEST with her husband about her feelings and not lied and gone behind his back. Society today does not take vows seriously and thrives on lying and cheating. It's horrible. Nothing between two people is sacred anymore and films like this only make it appear to be a glamorous thing rather than what it truly is. What it truly is, is hurtful. Be honest people.

I mean Christ, in the end of the movie the husband is crying to his wife's little sister, and then it steers off to showing his wife running through traffic to stop Lucy from leaving town, like it's a beautiful thing....it just isn't cool.

It would have been a great movie if it was about Rachel discovering her sexuality WITHOUT destroying her husband because he did nothing wrong to her in the entire film. He was an absolute gem actually.

Yes, I know it's only a movie, but what message are we sending with films like this? That it's OK to destroy our loved ones and lie to them? Not right.

Like I said, it would have been great if there was no busted husband involved in the whole scenario. It ended up making me angry.

found this movie to be very entertaining and delightful...the acting is excellent and the lead actresses are completely captivating....what a pleasure to be able to see a lesbian-themed movie with a storyline that parallels any straight love story.....with all the sexual tension, sexual chemistry, and positive presentation that straight people have been given from the dawn of cinematic history.....you will fall in love with the actresses....you will thrill to their budding love and consummation of that love.....this movie will haunt you when you leave the theater....you may even want to see it again....it won't win any awards like "brokeback mountain".....i realize that, but it will make your day.....

Imagine Me & You is a rather harmless romantic comedy with a great great cast. The setup has been covered to death but Piper Perabo and Lena Headey lock eyes during Piper's march down the wedding aisle and everything else in the movie plays out. I especially liked Matthew Goode's performance. The third wheel in a romantic comedy is always the most difficult but he pulls it off pretty well. Since all of this is in the trailer I'm not sharing a spoiler but when he breaks up with Piper he wants her to be happy, just happy with him you can sense his heart breaking. To paraphrase from the book "Love Monkey" sometimes the dealer looks at you and says, "You lost. Try your luck at a different table".

One thing, Imagine Me & You really isn't funny enough to be a comedy or serious enough to be a drama. It is a light fluffy slice of life about one woman's search for love. The problem with being true to yourself is the damage your search causes to the people you love.

I very much enjoyed this movie and hope you see it.

BTW The babe factor is extremely high with Piper and Lena but there is less objectionable material (other than content) than you would find on a PAX TV show. How can you have two drop dead chicks in a romance and not have a single bit of nudity? Hey maybe this was a tragedy?